She said when I called her by her porn name, I was talking to that 'other girl'. Our conversations were not about her career or her sex scenes - just everyday type stuff: what races I'd been to, what car I had now, what car I wanted next, what trips she'd taken, her goals in life, what I thought of a given stock or invesment, etc. One girl I've traded emails with for several years asked me to refer to her by a different name at a certain point. and now she's an attorney working for the state of California (I kinda doubt she advertises her past at work).Īnd you have to remember, for some girls at least, the 'porn name' is an alter ego. area danced for awhile, moved to California and did a short stint in porn. I know a few names of other less well known girls. If they become super famous and have long careers, like Seka, Christy Canyon or Vanessa del Rio (their reals name are fairly well known and not hard to find), I guess it doesn't matter so much. I'd say most girls choose stage names or aliases because there's still a stigma attached to porn: a lot of people still lose their jobs or have family and personal issues when they're found out.